Friday, December 11, 2009

A SMS From My Wife...

Today I received a SMS from my wife telling me the board game she just played. She found it so fun and interesting.

Suddenly it just caught me out of nowhere. When is the last time I slow down my pace of life to enjoy a simple game with my loved ones?

Did life overrun me unknowingly? Maybe it's time I should learn to “pause” my life and take a good snapshot of myself. Forget about the world and get to know myself. A message about a simple board game but it means so much to me.

Ever since I step on the "big board game" of the world, sometime I just forget about the simple game I've been playing when I am young.

Maybe is life that make me too busy. Or is it I choose to ignore about the simple game and head on only the life game? Is life so important that I can't even stop for a while? Am I afraid to be a laughing stock by others? Or is it there isn't any loves one to play with me? All of them are too busy with life? They are all like me?

Get hold of my life. It is my life. Not others. Who cares about what you think? The ONLY person I care... Jesus. Praise God, I know how you think of me. It is good. Thank you, Jesus.

心灵点滴

是不是人的年龄越大,唠叨也越来越多?不知不觉布落格也成了我发唠叨的最佳之处。

可是这次并不会发唠叨。。。可能是累了吧!脑袋空空似的。讨厌这种感觉。真的讨厌。很讨厌。

Oh lord, lift me up again Lord. Fill my heart with your love again. I once was lost but now I'm found. Oh Jesus, time for me to drink from the living water again.

Friday, December 04, 2009

宝宝游泳

刚过的周末,我带了我四个多月大的儿子去参加了一项宝宝游泳比赛。老实说,在新加坡并不常见这类似的比赛。试想想,参赛的宝宝有些只有一两个月大,有多少的父母会带他们多数时间还再熟睡的宝宝去学游泳呢?更别说是去比赛游泳。

不过话说回来,让小宝宝去游泳并不是一件很特别的举动。宝宝们本来一出世就会游泳。为什么我会那么说呢?别忘了宝宝在毋亲怀孕期时就是一直生活在水里。严格来说,生命的起源就是从水中开始。宝宝自有了生命,就在娘胎游了十个月的泳。有些产妇甚至选择了在水中分娩,就是不想让宝宝一出世就被那突如其来的转变而惊吓到。所以说宝宝本来就是一名游泳建将也不为过。

可是什么原因让那么多的宝宝失去了那有生具来的本能呢?

想想看,宝宝一出世之后,有多少机会,多少时间会接触到水?从想到看到触摸到说到跑,宝宝每一天都在学习中。跟据医学研究指出,那小小的脑袋一方面在成长,成型中(要到两岁过后才完全成型),一方面还得学习新的事物。试想一下,如果我们不尽早让宝宝接触游泳,小脑袋不就会把宝宝原有的泳术给忘了吗?

好了,可能是因为刚身为人父的关系吧,感触特别深。竟然不知不觉说那么多。如果我说让宝宝游泳还有许多益处的话,我想信会有更多的父母亲会开始让他们的宝宝早点接触游泳。不过不说了,要了解更多,自己上网"goggle"吧。

哦对了,请别因为看了我这篇"唠叨"就随随便便赶紧带您刚出世的宝宝,去大众似的泳池游泳。因为细菌的传播,水的"硬"度,深度和温度的关系,大众似的泳池是不适合宝宝的。当然我所说的泳池是个室内,有人监督宝宝,水深,水温都被控制的泳池。

到那里找?

有的。己经有人把这项宝宝游泳活动引进本国。我就是在那里让我宝宝游泳的。

唯一的感叹就是价格不便宜。不过要知道这世上多数的父母亲都有相同的愿望。。。"望子成龙,望女成凤"。任何对孩子有益或是能博宝宝一笑,我想信在我们能力范围之内,我们都会给于我们的孩子。

父母亲们,你们说对吗?

对了忘了说,我儿子已经成功进入来临周末的大决赛。儿子加油哦。

胜负是次要,开心最重要。爸爸永远支持你。