Friday, December 25, 2009

25th Dec 09 : On this day...

25th Dec 09 : On this day... I think it's all about Jesus... we should read what God tring to tell us today... so I have extract out a daily devotional from the "Destined To Reign".

For more info on the Daily Devotional, kindly go to
http://www.newcreation.org.sg/

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And this will be the sign to you: You will find a Babe wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in a manger.

- Luke 2:12 -

You are probably familiar with the story of Jesus’ birth in Bethlehem. The Bible says that when the time had come, Mary “brought forth her firstborn Son, and wrapped Him in swaddling cloths, and laid Him in a manger”. (Luke 2:6–7) But have you ever wondered why the angel told the shepherds that the Babe wrapped in swaddling cloths and lying in a manger was a “sign”?

A manger is actually a feeding trough for livestock. Do you know what a feeding trough in those days looks like? I have seen a similar one at Solomon’s stables in Meggido, Israel. It is basically a big rectangular block of stone with the trough hewn out of it. So baby Jesus, who was wrapped in swaddling cloths, was placed in such a stone trough.

But why was that a sign? Because if you have seen the empty tomb of Jesus at a place called The Garden Tomb in Jerusalem, you would have noticed that the place where His body was laid, inside a tomb hewn out of rock, resembles a stone trough. The Bible says that after Jesus’ crucifixion and death, Joseph of Arimathea took Jesus’ body, wrapped it in linen and laid it in a tomb hewn out of a rock. (Mark 15:43–46)

Can you see the similarities? Wrapped in swaddling cloths and laid in a manger, baby Jesus would one day be wrapped in linen and laid in a tomb. That was the sign the angel was referring to. It pointed to Jesus’ death.

Jesus was the only child in all of humanity born to die. Once you realize that, you will realize how much God loves you. You will realize that He gave up His Son for that one purpose, and that His Son willingly came for that one purpose — to die for your sins and mine.

Beloved, can you imagine living your life knowing that you are just qualifying yourself to die on the cross to save the world? That was the life that Jesus lived. He lived to die, so that we might live and enjoy life abundantly today!

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Blessed Birthday Jesus


Blessed Birthday Jesus.

Jesus, I know 25th December is not your actual birth day.
However since it is a day chosen to commemorate your birth,
25th December Christmas Day is your day.
A day for us to remember.
A day that greatly remind us of you.

Without CHRIST, there will no longer be any CHRISTMAS.

So Happy Birthday Jesus,
A Greatly Blessed Birthday To You, Jesus.



For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
- John 3:16 -


Monday, December 21, 2009

感触

莫名的悲伤,悲痛,悲愤,悲怆,悲泣,莫名的激动,莫名的感动,感激,兴奋, 快乐,人生就是充满了许许多多不同的感触,才会体会而懂得生命的意义。

可是有很多时候,就是因为这种莫名的感触,我们往往会不知觉的让情绪牵着走。

这就是所为的感情用事。人本身就是有血有肉,有情感的生物。以正常状况之下,在理智与情感之间,在一刹那间的决则或举动,很明显的,人多数会以情感来回应。

记得那天,可能是因为天气有点闷热的关系吧。心情明显有点烦躁。某人还在我身边,大声的拿我来开玩笑。明知道他也只是开开玩笑,平时的我自会一笑置知。可是那天,很明显的,我让我的情绪冲昏了理智,回应了一些不该说的话。

要知道,东西可以乱吃,话不可乱讲。不知道那一天就因为一时的冲动,得罪了人,那可就不得了。
(谨 守 口 与 舌 的 , 就 保 守 自 己 免 受 灾 难 -- Proverbs 箴 言 21:23)

说真的,有时候我们应该试着控制一下我们的情感,以理智去对事。

想想看,如果有一名病人去找心理医生看病。在细听了病人的述说之后,心理医生也被病人感动到。以至医生在医治病人时不能很专业的对待病人,甚至达到不能好好的对症下药。那不就头大吗?

可是以另一个角度来对事,感情用事虽然不很理智,可是那何尝不是一种人性的象征?没了感情的话,人和机械有什么分别?禽兽都会有兽性,难道我们要做个比禽兽都不如的人?

如果以感性一点的角度来看, 对待每件事物, 人类都以最真诚的感情来面对,这何尝不是一种人性的美?

奇怪,突然觉得说着说着,我好像有点离题似的。不管了,离题就离题。不知道为什么最近似乎感触特别多。每一件发生在生活里的事情,都像似有着许多很特别的感觉。可能是Holiday Season 吧。Love is in the Air. :-P

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

哲言哲理 II

有时候评论是没有意义的,你有你的看法,我有我的见解,他有他的判断。。。这都是种很主观的论点。

哲言哲理 I

生命总是诉说著神秘的启示,当拼图的最后一片没拼上时,永远都不会知道最后完整的图案。
(取至一本书)

Friday, December 11, 2009

A SMS From My Wife...

Today I received a SMS from my wife telling me the board game she just played. She found it so fun and interesting.

Suddenly it just caught me out of nowhere. When is the last time I slow down my pace of life to enjoy a simple game with my loved ones?

Did life overrun me unknowingly? Maybe it's time I should learn to “pause” my life and take a good snapshot of myself. Forget about the world and get to know myself. A message about a simple board game but it means so much to me.

Ever since I step on the "big board game" of the world, sometime I just forget about the simple game I've been playing when I am young.

Maybe is life that make me too busy. Or is it I choose to ignore about the simple game and head on only the life game? Is life so important that I can't even stop for a while? Am I afraid to be a laughing stock by others? Or is it there isn't any loves one to play with me? All of them are too busy with life? They are all like me?

Get hold of my life. It is my life. Not others. Who cares about what you think? The ONLY person I care... Jesus. Praise God, I know how you think of me. It is good. Thank you, Jesus.

心灵点滴

是不是人的年龄越大,唠叨也越来越多?不知不觉布落格也成了我发唠叨的最佳之处。

可是这次并不会发唠叨。。。可能是累了吧!脑袋空空似的。讨厌这种感觉。真的讨厌。很讨厌。

Oh lord, lift me up again Lord. Fill my heart with your love again. I once was lost but now I'm found. Oh Jesus, time for me to drink from the living water again.

Friday, December 04, 2009

宝宝游泳

刚过的周末,我带了我四个多月大的儿子去参加了一项宝宝游泳比赛。老实说,在新加坡并不常见这类似的比赛。试想想,参赛的宝宝有些只有一两个月大,有多少的父母会带他们多数时间还再熟睡的宝宝去学游泳呢?更别说是去比赛游泳。

不过话说回来,让小宝宝去游泳并不是一件很特别的举动。宝宝们本来一出世就会游泳。为什么我会那么说呢?别忘了宝宝在毋亲怀孕期时就是一直生活在水里。严格来说,生命的起源就是从水中开始。宝宝自有了生命,就在娘胎游了十个月的泳。有些产妇甚至选择了在水中分娩,就是不想让宝宝一出世就被那突如其来的转变而惊吓到。所以说宝宝本来就是一名游泳建将也不为过。

可是什么原因让那么多的宝宝失去了那有生具来的本能呢?

想想看,宝宝一出世之后,有多少机会,多少时间会接触到水?从想到看到触摸到说到跑,宝宝每一天都在学习中。跟据医学研究指出,那小小的脑袋一方面在成长,成型中(要到两岁过后才完全成型),一方面还得学习新的事物。试想一下,如果我们不尽早让宝宝接触游泳,小脑袋不就会把宝宝原有的泳术给忘了吗?

好了,可能是因为刚身为人父的关系吧,感触特别深。竟然不知不觉说那么多。如果我说让宝宝游泳还有许多益处的话,我想信会有更多的父母亲会开始让他们的宝宝早点接触游泳。不过不说了,要了解更多,自己上网"goggle"吧。

哦对了,请别因为看了我这篇"唠叨"就随随便便赶紧带您刚出世的宝宝,去大众似的泳池游泳。因为细菌的传播,水的"硬"度,深度和温度的关系,大众似的泳池是不适合宝宝的。当然我所说的泳池是个室内,有人监督宝宝,水深,水温都被控制的泳池。

到那里找?

有的。己经有人把这项宝宝游泳活动引进本国。我就是在那里让我宝宝游泳的。

唯一的感叹就是价格不便宜。不过要知道这世上多数的父母亲都有相同的愿望。。。"望子成龙,望女成凤"。任何对孩子有益或是能博宝宝一笑,我想信在我们能力范围之内,我们都会给于我们的孩子。

父母亲们,你们说对吗?

对了忘了说,我儿子已经成功进入来临周末的大决赛。儿子加油哦。

胜负是次要,开心最重要。爸爸永远支持你。

Sunday, November 22, 2009

笑

微笑 :
很高难度?很难吗?何苦扳着脸,是否全世界得罪了你?苦瓜脸,臭臭的脸只会让人怕了你,远离你。不如尝试微笑吧。

开怀大笑,哈哈大笑:
你记得你最后一次开怀大笑是多久以前的事吗?

苦笑 :
不管发生多苦恼的事,笑一下,虽然是苦苦的一笑,事情终究会解决的。

傻笑 :
当你面对一群针对你的问题时, 最易解决的方法,往往就是傻傻的笑,表现出一种不把事情放在心里的表情。

。。。


笑像是拥有一种很特别的力量,很多时候它能够一瞬间影响周边的每一个人。往往人生美好的事情都是先由此而来。在说不管是我们的人性还是生活方式都是离不开群体的。

关键就是"多笑"。

笑,一种很轻易的就把人与人之间的距离拉近。所以当我们面对我们日长生活里的每一件事时,就让我们保持着笑容面对每一天吧!

记得曾经有一位名人就说了一句非常出名的名言。。。

"老了,笑了,少了,笑了,又少了!"

什么嘛?又老又笑又少?是哪位世外高人在哪座高山说了这么幺的一句话?

不幺不幺,别心急, 他的意识是说。。。

"感觉老了,只要笑一笑,烦恼会变少,再试着笑一笑,少年时光又来到。"

是不是很有意识?
对了,忘了告诉你。。。

那位高人就是 = 我。
高山嘛 = 不高,就在我床上。

哈哈哈!
你笑了吗?

什么?还是不想笑?脸臭有生俱来?就是笑不出?

算了,只好拚了。。。
来人啊。。。把他托出去,弄"笑"了(福建话)

Friday, November 13, 2009

Enjoy life

Today Friday 13th Nov 2009... Happened to glance at the Joyce Meyer daily God's word for today when I was carrying Gavriel (my 4 month old boy).

Somehow, I think I was led by God to turn to today devotion. Interesting, the topic of the day was "Enjoy life". This was what she wrote:


" Enjoyment of life is not based on enjoyable circumstances. It is an attitude of the heart, a decision to enjoy everything because everything - even little, seemingly insignificant things - has a part in the overall "big picture" of life.

Rejoice in the lord alway: and again I say, rejoice. - Philippians 4:4
"

Mm... Think I'm doing the right thing today. I'm on Leave today. So is my wife... Er... Sort of, half day leave is still Leave right? Ok, I shall enjoy today, Nope, is everyday but today I decided to enjoy in every single things that happen today...

Alright, I planned to bring my boy to my wife office to fetch her from work. Sweet right? Well, my wife did highlighted to me that maybe I can bring Gavriel over...
:-p

So everything was planned accordingly to my timing. Just as I was about to go out, I realized that my boy needed to drink more milk. By the time I finished feeding him, oh no... Timing a bit out.

When I reached the bus stop, the bus ran away before I could even stop it. However thing was not really that bad. I received an SMS from my wife to tell me to take it slowly. She could wait. Praise god for such a wonderful wife.
:-)

Managed to squeeze into the MRT... My goodness, you mean man carrying a baby got no privilege? No one cares to give up their seat to me. :-p Never mind, I enjoyed standing too :-(

Reached the destination station, realized that it was raining very heavily. Ok, no more going to my wife's office. Reason being I needed to dash at least 400m under the rain if I were to carry on with my plan. So I called and waited patiently for my wife to finish her work at the station. Never did I expected, my son suddenly throw out milk all over my body. As I was carrying him on the baby carrier, both of us were thoroughly wet with the "digested" milk.

Great, I managed to take a cab, rushed to my wife's office and get my wife to change my boy while I get myself clean up. As the "damage" was quite "smelly", we decided to cancel our "meal out and shopping time" by going back home for a change.

When we reached downstairs of our flat, we realized that the lift is under maintenance. Excellent because finally we got to find time to do some exercise by climbing up the stairs, carrying all the "Barang Barang" and my boy up to the 15 floor of our house
Suddenly while my boy was sleeping soundly between me and my wife, I realised that life is still not too bad after all.

Finished cleaning up and taken our meal, rain was still pouring heavily.

I realized that all the things did not go according to my plan at all. Enjoying life... How to do that?


Remember what did God tell me today?

"
Enjoyment of life is not based on enjoyable circumstances. "

Indeed my circumstances seem bad to enjoy....

"
even little, seemingly insignificant things - has a part in the overall "big picture" of life. "

Looking back, however it is a great experience for me. Alone, just me bringing my boy taking bus and train. Realised that people tend to give up seats to lady with baby than man with baby
:-p Getting both wet with "digested" milk on both father and son in MRT station. Climbing up stairs with my wife and my son. Spending time with my wife and son at home playing...

Hey, it is not that bad after all. We enjoyed our ride, both of us are still cool when we are both wet, we still joke when we are climbing up the stairs and we get to play and laugh with our boy today. If nothing of the "unplanned" happened, I don't think we as a family could do so many "different" things today. Life would still be the same as another OFF day as we always do.

Most importantly, God is still with me today. The moment I need a cab, it is there for me. (So Blessed by God) Even my wife comment that she realised that whenever I buy the "Char Siew" rice, the stall owner tend to give me more "Char Siew". (So Favored by God) while we are climbing up the stairs, we met the lift maintenance guy who said 'sorry' to us for making us climbing up the stairs. Is his job to do the maintenance, there isn't a need for him to be sorry about, but I received it. (So Loved by God)

Mmm... So if you asked me about Today, I think I still enjoy today.

Btw, did I tell you today were my 5th wedding anniversary?

Blessed anniversary darling, I love you.
:-)

对或错

最近常听到朋友之间喜欢改正彼此之间的言行举止。往往这类似的"言论",最终总是让人不欢而散。

说实话,有谁真正能够很肯定的对任何事件说出准确性的对或错?

就说吃吧。你可能对我今天吃的午餐有意见。油腻腻的猪脚。吃了胆固醇肯定急速升高。肯定对身体有害。可是以表面来看事物并不一定是对。我可能因为莫种原因,比如说是因为得了莫种"特别"的病毒所以得多吃一些高胆固醇的食品。

原则上来说,早出发,就会早到终点。所以今天你选择早点离家去公司。本以为一定可以早到。那知道中途却遇上车祸。可能迟点离开的话,你就不会遇到车祸了。

让我再举个例子。如果在一辆拥挤的公车上, 你看到一位年青人坐着,毫不在乎眼前站着的老奶奶。你会怎什想呢?你会认为年青人是因为脚受伤而没让位给老奶奶吗?或者说你会认为是老奶奶拒绝了年青人的让位呢?


一位喜欢开玩笑,言行比常人另类,举姿比人夸张,就是疯子吗?

言行举止比较女性化,就是变性人?

想想看,此比欲好象可以一直说下去也不会有什么结论。正所谓,世界那么大,事事无绝对。往往人们只看表面就自以为是的下判断,对人对事只有百害而无益处。我看我们还是多聆听,少开口,世界可能就天下太平了。你说对吗?

说完了。回想一下,以上的见解也是以我个人对此事所做的一种"判断"。。。对或错。。。谁能够下定论呢?

Friday, November 06, 2009

。智慧 。爱 。

有位好朋友寄了一封电邮给我,里头有一段小男孩和智者的对话。


。。。。

小男孩說 : “你能让我所有朋友永遠健康快樂吗?”

智者說 : “只能四天 !”

小男孩說 : “好,春天、夏天、秋天、冬天。”

智者說 : “三天 。”

小男孩說 : “好,昨天、今天、明天 。”

智者說 : “不行,兩天 !”

小男孩說 : “好,白天、黑天。”

智者說 : “不行,就一天 ! ”

小男孩說 : “好 ! ”

智者茫然...

智者問 : “哪一天 ?”

小男孩說 : “在我所有朋友活著的每一天 。”

智者笑了...

智者說 : “以後你所有朋友將天天健康快樂 。”

。。。。

是不是很有智慧的对话?小男孩已自己的才智,成功的回复了智者的难题。这段对话真的让我反覆的回想一下... 在这争名夺利的社会,人是多么的想要拥有很多的智慧来实现梦想。想一想,如果小男孩问的不是智者而是耶稣,猜一猜耶稣会是怎么回应呢?


(以下纯属我个人的猜彻... 你可以不认同...)

。。。。


小男孩說 : “请让我所有朋友永遠健康快樂 !”

耶稣說 : “可以,只要你的朋友认识我,他们就会永遠健康快樂。”

小男孩說 : “就这样?”

耶稣說 :“是啊,我本来就爱世人。健康,快樂,辛福一至以来都是我所要给每个人。就因为世人不认得我,拒我于千哩之外。


Tuesday, November 03, 2009

OFFICIAL Re-Opening

Dear All...


I'm glad to annouce that Today is the OFFICIAL Re-Opening of BlessedCouple !!!


ok... some might think why like tat?
Always ON and OFF suddenly... so "kiddy"... ;-P


haha... :-D

No choice, Got alot of commitment on hand.

Suddenly realise that it been almost 8 months since I touch on my blog... Anyway I have declared it closed... hehee... many things to say... but no time to write... TIME flies? I don know, I can't even find the time... does TIME actually exist in the first place? ;-P



Anyway BlessedCouple might not be updated so frequently.
Million of Sorry. But I promise, it will be updated.



By the way, another 2 new Blog "might" be coming up in the next coming few months. Both are associated to BlessedCouple... in other words... both written by the same Blessed Man... ME! ;-D


So remember to stay tune to the "BlessedCouple frequency" for more info. ok?



May the Lord bless All of us...



Thank You.



-----ooOoo-----

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

OFFICIAL Closure

Dear Alll

This is an annoucement to tell you that I have decided not to write anymore...

Today is the OFFICIAL CLOSURE of BlessedCouple !!!

Thank You.

-----ooOoo-----

Thursday, February 26, 2009

迷失了 !


我猜迷失了。
我自以为我走了很久,看了很多,我找到了。
我发现,迷失了。
我找不到我原来的起点。

我试图走着。
我走了很久很久,看了更多,我找到了?
我知道,我错了。
我哭因为我迷失又累了。

我又开始走了。
我走了更远更久,看了更多更多,我终于找到了?
我看到,我笑了。
我感觉到我又看不到了。

我又开始哭了。
我真的不想走了,看也不想看了,我真的累了。
我发现,我哭了。
我再一次又一次迷失了。

你让我看到你伸出的手。
你使我也伸出了我的手。
你让我发现我很久没为自己真的笑了。
你使我发自内心的笑了。
你的爱让我找到了我自己。

我不再迷失了。

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Bring The Rain

In times when we are tired with life, I think it is good that we forget about all things and sink ourselves into the love of GOD. Raise our hand and praise our GOD with songs about the love of GOD for us. Many turned to the "worldly" song out there... I'm not condemning those songs. I love them and I hear and sing it too. But in times of troubles, I think it is wiser for us to go to GOD than to the world that gives you these troubles. It will only sadden us more and times to recover will takes longer.

As God has promise us, during the storm, keep our eyes on him and he will bring us through it... See the Lyric of this song (Bring The Rain)... It is so beautifully written. Just remember, no matter what happen and no matter what the world throw to us, keep the faith going and keep praising.

Our job is not to fight, for the battles belong to the Lord. And most importantly, He has already won to battles for us. We just have to acknowledge it and receive it.

Amen!



----- oo0oo -----


Bring The Rain

I can count a million times
People asking me how I
Can praise You with all that
I've gone through
The question just amazes me
Can circumstances possibly
Change who I forever am in You

Maybe since my life was changed
Long before these rainy days
It's never really ever crossed my mind
To turn my back on you, oh Lord
My only shelter from the storm
But instead I draw closer through these times
So I pray

Bring me joy, bring me peace
Bring the chance to be free
Bring me anything that brings
You glory And I know there'll be days
When this life brings me pain
But if that's what it takes to
praise You Jesus, bring the rain

I am yours regardless of the clouds that may
loom above because you are much greater than
my pain you who made a way for me suffering
your destiny so tell me whats a little rain

Holy, holy, holy
Holy, holy, holy
is the lord God almighty
is the lord God almighty
I'm forever singing

everybody singing
Holy holy holy
you are holy
you are holy






Desert Song

Got to know of another song from Hillsong's album "This Is Our God". I love the lyrics of this song is awesome. It gives me a reason to stay alive and be happy about. My Lord, my God, my provider, my victory !!! Praise The Lord, for he is good all the time. And all the time he is good.



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Desert Song

This is my prayer in the desert
And all that's within me feels dry
This is my prayer in the hunger in me
My God is a God who provides

And this is my prayer in the fire
In weakness or trial or pain
There is a faith proved
Of more worth than gold
So refine me Lord through the flames

Chorus:
And I will bring praise
I will bring praise
No weapon forged against me shall remain

I will rejoice
I will declare
God is my victory and He is here

And this is my prayer in the battle
And triumph is still on it's way
I am a conqueror and co-heir with Christ
So firm on His promise I'll stand

Bridge:
All of my life
In every season
You are still God
I have a reason to sing
I have a reason to worship

This is my prayer in the harvest
When favor and providence flow
I know I'm filled to be empited again
The seed I've recieved I will sow



Wants to know more about the Story Behind Desert Song? Watch the Video by Jill McCloghry. Alright it touches me as I watch Jill shares on her experience. It was during a difficult moment of time when the song came to her... Keep singing Jill, God is good. Keep the faith going.

Watch the video


As We Gather / The Steadfast Love Of The Lord


My wife was singing this song since yesterday... Oh Lord, are you telling me something? Telling me your love will be with me always? Your mercies for me are new every morning?

Great is Thy faithfulness for me...

Thank You Jesus... and Thank You darling for reminding me about the Love of God.

Thank You.


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As We Gather / The Steadfast Love Of The Lord

As we gather may Your Spirit work within us
As we gather may we glorify Your name
Knowing well that as our hearts begin to worship
We'll be blessed because we came
We'll be blessed because we came

Chorus:
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases,
His mercies never come to an end,
They are new every morning, new every morning
Great is Thy faithfulness (Oh Lord)
Great is Thy faithfulness

You have called us by Your Spirit into worship
In this temple You have set our hearts aflame
As we lay our hearts upon Your holy altar
We'll be blessed in Jesus' name

Let us cleanse our hearts as we begin to worship
Let us fill our hearts with love for You and sing
Open up our eyes so we may come to know You
And unto us the Spirit bring





Saturday, February 21, 2009

Swimming

I don't remember when is the last time I swam. Maybe a few years back. Nevertheless, I swam again today.


I have always promise my wife to go swimming with her one of these days. Yesterday she managed to "persuade" me to buy a new swimming trunk. And the next best thing she does today early in the morning... she managed to drag me out from my cozy bed into the swimming pool.


Praise the Lord, I still remember how to swim. :-)


Alright, not surprise at all, my wife swam much longer distance than me. In fact she swam double the distance. Come on, all the while she likes swimming, while I enjoy jogging. So no doubt, she can swim better than me. Anyway, is a good workout for me. I can really feel the stretch of my whole body after the swim.


Thank you dear, for "dragging" me into the pool today. But seriously, I don't mind laying on bed sleeping too... ;-P

Friday, February 20, 2009

Forgetful

This is the second time within a week that I forgotten to take my phone out with me. The first time happen on last Wednesday during my in-camp training and on Monday, it is the second time.

Something I really question myself... Am I getting old? Is my age catching up with me? Many of my peers are already married with children. No longer are we still schooling or in the army. Am I really getting old that my memory is failing me?

On the other hand, am I too stress? I remember many a time, I cried out a rhetorical question, "I think I'm stress". A natural reaction from friend is that they tend to question me back, "You also will get stress meh? You always so "smiling" face, stress still can talk so much rubbish?" (come on, i don expect you to answer me back anyway)

So am I really so stress-free?

Btw who said stress must react and look like stress? Anyway what is the correct "face looks" to look stress?

I question myself again...

Last week in camp training... Train only 2 times and I go for my IPPT... (worry ok!) Peers are going MR (MINDEF Reserved) and I'm still needed to serve another 1 high and 2 low key with a new unit. (Low morale rite?)

After 1 long week in camp and now going back office, stack of works waiting for me, ahah!

Then there are those "demand" and decision to be make in... Those desire of... Problems that... The coming issues that I will be facing... (Okay, all the above are private and confidential.)

Think about it again, am I really that worries free?

Someone did mention to me that it is the habitual ways for an IT guy. He only react and fire fight when things happen. My wife too commented on me that I love to sweep problems (issues that I hate to face) under the carpet and only settle it when the problems surface.

Well, I don't deny it. Maybe that the reason why me and my wife are married to each other. She's systematic and I'm not. That's how we complement each other. ;-p

Recently, I think my mind is always so busy. I realize that there are many times during bath, I think I've fill myself with the shower foam twice. Reason is that half way thru the bath, I even forgot whether I have used the shower foam. My mind is far away thinking of other things. I just don understand too, what am I thinking during my bath. Problems again?

Am I having too much things to settle? Have I reach my limit? Or am I too tired? Maybe I just need a break. Really a break from ALL.

And ALL = Work, Life and Friends !

I heard this many times, that everyone has their own problems in life. Is just a matter whether it is big or small. I don really agree. Is true that everyone got their own problems. However there's isn't a different between big or small. It just how a person able to contain the problem.

You might be having a BIG problem that you owe the bank a hundred thousand $. However to a billionaire, it is such a small amount. It immediately becomes a SMALL problem. In fact it might not even be a problem to him.

Ah... What am I talking about now? Aren't I on the topic of FORGETFUL? But now I'm talking about PROBLEM. I think I really mixed up now. I cannot think anymore... Ahahah... Am I in the mid-life cruise instead?

Is Forget = Sickness ???




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Ps: I'm sorry that you have to listen to me telling a lot of crap today. Everythings written might not even be in-syn with each other. Sigh... Think I'm really tired.

人累了 !!

人为何会累 ?

人类 = 人累 ???

Thursday, February 19, 2009

我累了 !

我累了。

我真的累了!

就让我歇一歇吧!

因为我是真的真的真的累了!

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

I've Make It !!!

This is the day... Today....
This is the time... 1600hr...
This is the weather... Cloudy and Cooling...

It was very hot for the whole day, however I praise the Lord for the good weather in the late afternoon. Initial time is suppose to be 1500hr, but was push back till 1530hr. (due to "unknown" reason) With the late setup by the controller, it was further push back till 1600hr then we start. By the time we start, the hot weather has turn into cloudy and we can even feel the wind blowing.

So what is it? What is the event? What am I talking about?
hehee... is... IPPT (Individual Physical Proficiency Test)

Today is the day I was talking about... Trained for only 2 days, worring throughout the whole event... I'm proud to announce, I've PASS my IPPT. In fact, not only I get a pass, I even got a SILVER grade... Yes! :-D

Thank You Jesus !

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PS: IPPT comprises of...
  1. Sit up
  2. Standing Board Jump
  3. Chin Up
  4. Shuttle Run
  5. 2.4Km Run

Sunday, February 08, 2009

Accident do Happen !!!

Alright, I actually accidently deleted away 1 of my post in October 2008.

Cannot make it... Sob* Sob*
:-(

2x Running B4 IPPT

Yes, I tried to make an effort to wake up earlier today to go jogging...

I'm on my feet again... ok lor... my legs still ache over the last run. What to do? 2nd trainning before my IPPT... left only 2 more days....

Wow... 1+1=2, 1x2=2, 2/1=2... no matter how I calculate, I still get 2. Tomorrow onwards I will not have any time to train... so that will means... great, today is my last trainning for the IPPT... Ahahah... the more I think of it, the scarier it becomes...

"shalom shalom... May the peace and strength of the Lord be with me."

okay, so how long and how fast I jog today :

Distance = 3.13Km
(hey, don laugh, at least better than last run lor, IPPT oni need 2.4Km)
Duration = 18 min
(Err... 2.4km needs at least 12:20 min to pass) ...

okay okay, I admit, by the time I reach 13 min, I think I only run till 1.9 km. :-P Veri slow, rite? sometime I also cannot tahan myself... How did I make it for the past IPPT... Grace grace, Glory be onto GOD !!!

Anyway when I finally reach the end of my run, was about to turn back, I saw my Brother-In-Grace. He was jogging with a group of his friends, trainning for his upcoming biathlon... Ahahah, he's trainning for his biathlon and here I am, still struggling for IPPT... Ahahahah...

okay, this is going to be the last time... (Think this is what I told myself every year ;-P)

Anyhow, I will go sign up for the Standard Chartered Singapore Marathon (42Km) at the end of the year. I will make full use of this whole year for a good work out.

As my OC ever mention before during my army days... Man can lost to man, but don't ever lost his face (输人不输脸)...

So Brother-In-Grace, wait for me. I'll will chase up with you.
Cheers :-P

Thursday, February 05, 2009

I'm Running Again !!!

Finally today I'm running again...

Not that I don't like to run, in fact jogging has always been one of my favourite exercise. Just that it has been rather busy for the past 2 months. (okay, I'm giving myself excuses again... I admit... Lazy is the word to use... :-D !!!) Nevertheless, the last run was more than 2 months ago. and TODAY... I just went for a run again around my house...

Wanted to run much longer, however it seem like my flu and cough has not fully recover. After running for about 2.13km (I calculated it from http://www.mapmyrun.com/), I can feel that one of my nostrils got stuck again and I almost wanted to vomit out.

Cannot make it right? For the past few days, been quite a busy and tiring days for me. However I do felt much better after the run. Exercise do helps. :-)

Okay, so why the sudden run? okay, the main reason is, I'm going for my reservist next week and I will need to go for my yearly IPPT again... :-D Let's me see... 1, 2, 3, 4, 5,6... oh no I'm left with 6 days to train for it.

Grace grace lar... I'm sure I can make it... coz I'm FIT !!!

GOD Bless ME !!! :-)

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

又到新年噢 !

不知不觉又到了华人新年。以华人节日来说,我最喜欢新年了。有红包拿又有好吃的糕点。最重要的一点就是能和一家人一 起吃团圆饭。可惜的是今年只有两天的假日,有点过得太快了。

本来今天大年初三想要请一天的假日,可是人算不如天算,因为得回公司开会只得拿半天的假日。无所谓啦,反正今年我得常常请假 。。。留住以后在拿吧。不过老实说,公司今天还真是冷冷清清。不过也好啦,没人= 耳根清静!

(不过,好像平日都是我的声量最大。。。哈!哈! 哈!)

好了,过年过节,我还是不要太罗唆。。。Keep it Simple!

祝大家开开心心的迎新年。
也祝大家在新的一年里,心想事成, 万事如意,牛年行大运。。。

发!发!发!

Thursday, January 22, 2009

By Jesus Stripes, I Am Healed !!! - PART II

Day 2 of my medical leave… looks like I’m really that free on these 2 days… I’m on the Blog again… actually yesterday I wanted to write something on COUGH. Suddenly it just turns out to be on the topic “Why do we get sick”?

Nevertheless let’s me continue today… so "WHY DO WE COUGH?" Anyone got any idea please? Ok, I’m asking myself actually… :-P (who will answer me in my blog?) So let me google it again… (hey, I’m not a doctor, of course I google lar)

Below is what I found on the internet:

A cough is a symptom of infection, inflammation or irritation of the respiratory tract (lungs and airways). It is usually a reflex action triggered when cough receptors are stimulated by an irritant. Okay, Layman term… Coughs are our body's way of clearing dust and other obnoxious things out of our windpipe and lungs.

In most cases, a cough lasts 1-2 weeks and tapers off as the irritant or infection subsides. A cough lasting more than 3 weeks is known as a chronic cough and needs to be investigated. (Alright, I cough for almost 3 weeks… so no excuses for me not to see doctor… hehee)

So are there different types of cough?

Yes, 3 types actually…
  1. Dry - A dry or non-productive cough produces no phlegm. Normally starts as a tickle in the throat. It is usually caused by inflammation of the throat and upper airways (common cold or flu).
  2. Productive - A productive or wet cough brings up mucus or phlegm from the lungs. If bacterial infection is present, this sputum may be greenish, grey, or brown. In the case of allergy or viral infections, the sputum may be clear or white. Occasionally, the sputum may be blood-stained.
  3. Chesty. - A chesty cough may produce phlegm but the phlegm may not be loose enough to be coughed up.
Come to think about it, the 1st week I have a “little bit” of flu (nose blocked) and start to have dry cough… Mmm… then 2nd week onward, I started to have productive cough… Wow… 3 types I got 2… Think buy Toto also not so “lucky”.

Okay so Now I have seen the Doctor… is there anything I can help the body to remove the irritants as quickly and effectively as possible? Yes… let’s me see…
  1. Drinking more fluids, especially warm fluids, can help relax the airway and loosen up the mucus. Some people find drinking hot tea flavoured with honey helpful for coughs caused by colds or flu.
  2. Ensure your bowel is working daily, to flush toxins out of the system. (Praise God, this is something I have no problem in. Maybe I really have a lot of toxins in my body. No wonder I always go to the washroom. ;-P)
  3. Reduce intake of dairy foods
  4. Breathing warm humidified air can be helpful in loosening dry coughs.
  5. Increasing your intake of vitamin C, may be helpful in preventing colds and flu.
  6. Don’t stay in stuffy rooms or expose to cigarette smoke. (polluted environments) Enjoy the fresh air but wrap up warmly and don’t expose your throat to cold winds.
  7. Avoid exercising as exercise can trigger coughing spasms. (Oh no… My IPPT date is coming near… and I have not train for it… Oh No… no stress no stress… keep cool… okay after this better go sleep ;-P)
  8. If cough is caused by a respiratory infection, get plenty of rest and keep warm.
  9. Last but not least… stays in faith… remember what I wrote yesterday???? "Oh Lord, by your Stripes, I Am Healed!" (Isaiah 53:5 & 1 Peter 2:24)

Okay this is for people whose faith is not there yet… So when should we see a doctor?

  1. Cough that lasts more than 10 -14 days
  2. Cough up blood
  3. Are short of breath/have difficulty breathing/fast, laboured breathing, chest pain
  4. A cough in a Known asthmatic, whether or not having trouble breathing
  5. Have persistent green/yellow phlegm
  6. Cough that is accompanied by high fever that is not settling
  7. Cough that appears with other symptoms

So what will doctor do?

Normally doctor will prescribe cough medicine like...

  1. Anti-tussives - Cough suppressants that block the cough reflex
  2. Expectorants - Drug that thin the mucus to make it easier to cough up
  3. Demulcents - Cough mixtures that relieve cough

If the cough still persistence, doctor might take a history and examine your chest. You may be referred for a chest X-ray to rule out a serious lung infection. A sputum sample may be taken to help identify the type of bacterium causing the infection and to identify the most suitable antibiotic.


Hold on, I saw another article that said, “One problem with any cough suppressant is that getting rid of the cough may leave you unable to get rid of mucus and irritants from the lungs. It's possible to end up with pneumonia if you prevent your body from clearing the lungs regularly and automatically.”

Ah… is that so??? Looks like unless you want to get a medical leave else I think we should just stick to the 9 basic steps to help the body to recover first…

Nevertheless, why should we be sick? We are too blessed right? Jesus has redeem us from the sickness… so let’s us hold on to the truth and stay healthy together… and if SATAN gives the symptoms attack, let’s us said it out loud…

“BY Jesus Stripes, I Am Healed!”

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

By Jesus Stripes, I Am Healed !!! - Part I

Why do we get sick? Any one got any idea?

Well, as I was writing this, I’m actually on medical leave for 2 days. I’ve been coughing since 2 weeks ago. Today I went to see the doctor for the 3rd time. Guess what? I was told that this round I will be given a better anti-biotic… Indeed, it was personally taken out from the doctor’s cabinet instead from the usual place where the nurse normally took it for patient. And most importantly, the price is also much higher… so better medicine = higher price ;-P

Ok, sound serious rite? Cough for almost 3 weeks. See doctor for 3 times liao. Especially the night, I have to wake up so many times because of coughing. (Sorry darling, because of me, I have caused you so many sleepless nights. I praise God for such an understanding wife that I have.)

In fact, when I split out the Phlegm last night, I can see some spotting of blood in it. (Alright I admit, that’s the reason why I visited the doctor again. Hey, blood leh… You think what? Hero? Cough till phlegm got blood, you not scared meh? ) Worse, guess what the doctor said? She actually told me that if this round, I’m still unrecovered, I will need to go for X-ray. Aiyo… Now it sounds really serious hor? Cannot make it…

Alright, me and my never ending “talks” again… come back Thaddeus… ok where am I??? Yes, why do we get sick? As usual, anything doesn’t know… “Google it”.

Okay, we get sick due to germs that get into our body… attack us… that’s how we get sick. A search on germs, I saw an article by Louis Pasteur who developed the Germ Theory.

“Germs and other microorganisms can only feed on dead tissue in the body. The tissues in our bodies start to die as the pH balance of our bodies becomes too acidic. The acidic environment of an unhealthy body gives the germs freedom to feed and grow.” And before he admitted near the end of his life, he added that “it was not the germs which were the problem of disease, but the medium in which they lived.”

Another search, I saw another interesting article by Annemarie Colbin, Ph.D.

He mention about Paracelsus who lived at the end of the 15th and the beginning of the 16th Centuries. Paracelsus considered that there were five major causes of illness.

1. External – Usually caused by the environmental. For example, excess heat, cold, dampness, wet, wind, pollution, acid rain, electromagnetic fields… etc

2. Poisons – Things (impurities) we eat. Example, spoiled food, contaminated food, poisonous substances, bad or refined or junk food… etc

Interestingly, he mention something about Colostrum, the watery substance secreted by the mother for the first two or three days after birth, is a major factor in a person’s lifetime immune strength: Colostrum cleanses and colonizes the infant’s intestines with healthful lactobacillus, and thereby sets up the immune system for life.

Mmm… is that the reason why for the past 2 centuries, we received more and more news on new diseases that kill more people than before? More infants these days are surviving on infant formula than breast milk… Is the world having more diseases or is the mankind getting weaker? People who has not given birth or who are going to have children… Take Note.

Btw, Mum… you fed me with breast milk when I’m a baby?

3. Psychological – Mainly due to Stress and it is defined as lack of sleep. As we repair our bodies during sleep, when we don’t get enough of it, we don’t get the chance to repair properly, and disease ensues.

4. Hereditary – inherit the weaknesses of our parents and ancestors, and may be more likely to suffer the same illnesses as they did.

5. Karmic – Spiritual… anything that we can’t resolved or explain using our modern science.

So what did we learn from this 2 articles? (of course, if you have a lot of free times… you can always search it up for more articles on it… me 2… hey, I’m sick you know? Comment from 2 articles is a lot liao… somemore got to spend time to write this blog, read more, think this blog can never write finish… ;-P)

I don know for you… at least I know we should held responsible to our own health. As Louis said, the main problem is the medium that the germs “stuck” on. That’s our body. Look after our own body and no matter what germs that “stuck” on us, we will be immune to it.

So how do we go about doing it?

What did Paracelsu said?

1. External causes by environment => COLD? Wear a jacket. HOT? On the fan, try not to stand under the hot sun, wear comfortably, if necessary go and bath. (Do I have to explain all that?)

2. Poison??? => Look at what you eat. Know what and how much you should/can eat. Don’t anyhow eat.

3. Psychological? Stress? => Go and Sleep!!!

4. Hereditary? Genetic issue? => Look after your own health, it should not exist in the first place. It is the thought and the fear of it that caused it to happen than it should exist in the first place.

5. Karmic? Yes, actually I love this the most. For me, no matter how or what… I do believe there is GOD. He loves us and he wants us to be in good health.

In fact let me tell the world about GOD and Christian…

Let’s us look in the bible, we will know that the world has fallen. God created a world free of pollution. In fact he even declared it as VERY GOOD… (Genesis 1:31) However ever since then, Man has been tearing down forests and jungles and added in more and more “ingredients” into the air we breath.

God even taught us what we should eat… (Leviticus 11), it is the creation of God for mothers to have breast milk for the child to drink, but now we use infant formula. (Okay, you might have your reason… maybe breast cannot produce enough… etc…)

Even God rested after he created the heaven and earth on the seventh day… (Genesis 2:3) Who are we to work days and night without resting? He even commanded Man to rest on the seventh day… (Leviticus 23:3 – Sabbath Day) Even the earth got to rest on the seventh year… (Leviticus 25:4-5 – Sabbath Year) So who are we to be so stress? In fact, as a Christian, we should be proud to declare that, “We are too blessed to be stressed”!!!

Genetic? Again, as a Christian, we are new creation from God. Old things have passed away and all things have become new… (2 Corinthians 5:17) Genetic problem? Yes we do have it, but its God’s genes now… so as the Lord is, so are we in this world… (1 John 4:17) Strong and Mighty is he!!!

Suddenly, after writing all these… I’m so glad that I’m a Christian. Bible is really a book by God. He answers every single of our needs… (Psalm 23:1)

Oh Lord, by your Stripes, I Am Healed!!! (Isaiah 53:5 & 1 Peter 2:24)

God, I know my faith is not there yet, nevertheless, I know that your son has redeem all my sin on the cross and healing belong to me, so let the miracle fall on me. In Jesus mighty name… Amen!!!




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PS: what about Karmic??? Do I still need to explain that??? Give me a break.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Backpacking in Europe - Day 5 to Day 17 (End)

Day 5
Netherlands - Amsterdam
30 May 2008
Day 6
Germany - Munchen
31 May 2008

Day 7
Germany - Mainz
1 June 2008
Day 8
Germany - Koblenz
2 June 2008

Day 9
Switzerland - Basel - Luzern
3 Jun 2008

Day 10
Switzerland - Bern
4 June 2008

Day 11
Italy - Milano - Venezia
5 June 2008


Day 12
Italy - Firenze
6 June 2008

Day 13
Italy - Pisa
7 June 2008

Day 14
Italy - Roma
8 June 2008

Day 15
Italy - Roma
9 June 2008

Day 16 to Day 17
Italy - Roma -> France - Paris -> Singapore
10 June 2008 - 11 June 2008

Home Sweet Home - My Country, Singapore !!!

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Alright, here's comes the end of posting on my trip to Europe...

You might be surprise why I never "comment" or "describe" more from Day 5 onwards... Well, after discussing with Me, myself and I, we have decided not to post the details of the whole trip. Maybe because of personal reason, maybe I just being lazy, maybe... and maybe...

So if you have been following the posting of my trip, I'm really happy and glad that someone actually read it. However Million of sorry that I have to stop posting the details.

Nevertheless if you are a personal friend of mine. Do drop by my house and I will personally show you my photo journal and tell you more about it.